Assalamo Alaikom, Bro
Read my response to your post in the blog about boycotting Israel.
meggie
1 year ago
Assalamualaikum
Dear brother,
Thanks for your comment at my page. You seem to have a situation here whether to give priority to your job or your family (wife). Perhaps you can have both.!!
I have no clear understanding of the nature of your work. Being close to other sexes sometimes cannot be avoided such as being a doctor or being a teacher. So brother perhaps you could mention the nature of your job and it is a requirement of you being really close to opposite sex that makes your wife considered it as inappropriate.
I must say jealousy is good especially when a wife or a husband is jealous cause she LOVEs you. But over jealousy or without having no good reason and to be jealous, then it is bad. Understanding and tolerence is a must. You have to admit and accept your shortcoming as well as to accept your spouse shortcoming. Open your heart and accept the will of Allah that He bestows upon you. May Allah be with you and your wife. Wassalam.
matt76_muslim
1 year ago
Assalaamu 'alaykum wa rahmatullaah
May Allaah reward all of the brothers (and, or sisters) who've given their advise (ameen)
It is hard to find work in the U.S. that does not involve ikhtilaat/intermingling between the sexes, but if one is able to to find such a job (that is halaal), one should seek that job.
In the mean time, you should lower your gaze, avoid shaking hands, and to the best of your ability, avoid any unnesseccary conversations with the women. This is better for your heart.
May Allaah bless you and your family with love, tranquility, and mercy (ameen)
Abu_Maryam
1 year ago
Walayikum salaam,
What I advise first and foremost is to make dua to Allah(swt). Also I would advise fasting at least one day out the week or fasting Monday and Thursday to helps control your nafs, of course Allah(swt) know best. Seek his aid.
May Allah(swt) guide you ,your family,me,and my family ever nearer to the straight Path, the path that Allah(swt grants Jinnah.
Jamil_Hasan
1 year ago
salam alakim im a new member and thank ror the welcome
TheMuslimBABY1011
1 year ago
Asalaamu 'alaikum bro! Just wanted to invite you to post our forum also inshallah! Take care! Ws
http://www.muslimfamilytoday.com
muslimfamilytoday
1 year ago
As salam alaikum
brother
I sorry I dont know much about Dearborn Michigan, although I have only been there once. You can search online about Dearborn mi.
salam
aliabidi
1 year ago
